Cabin Fever

The biggest thing I am dealing with right now is cabin fever. It seems like it has snowed every day for the past couple weeks and the weather and roads are just bad enough to not justify going out for leisure. Since I can no longer handle grocery shopping, I don't even get to go there (thankfully for me and the other shoppers). It seems like my entire social life lately has been going every two weeks to the chiropractor and to get a B-12 shot.  It has been too cold to even want to venture outside. My husband is kind enough to keep part of the deck cleared of snow so that I can at least step out if I want to and so I can feed and watch the squirrels and birds, but that only entertains for so long.

We did venture out the other day to go check on  my sister when I could not reach her on the phone. We check in with each other every day to make sure we are okay. She lives alone, so when I couldn't reach her that day, we drove to her place to make sure she was okay. She was fine, just hadn't charged her phone. While we were out, my husband took me to the Hallmark store, one of my favorite places to shop because the women who work there are so nice and lots of fun. Then we stopped at my favorite Greek diner for lunch. Again, a fun place to go and a fantastic place to eat.

We now know that it is worth making the effort to get out more often, even though I am a horrible back seat driver. I know I wouldn't want to be driving me around. I panic a lot over silly nothings. This simple trip brightened my spirits immensely. Especially with the piece of baklava that the waitress made me take home... it was soooo yummy!  I had given her a little gift at Christmas, so she wanted to repay the favor. She also sent me off with a bowl of my favorite soup so I would have it for supper. I should give her gifts more often!

So, to all of you with FTD and to all of you caregivers, if at all possible, make those little trips to brighten the mood a little. Obviously, once you start reaching the later stages this advice would not apply, but in the meantime, make time to have some fun, even if it is an effort!

It is supposed to snow up to a foot again tonight, so I guess I will be trapped inside again for at least a few days this week.  At least the days are getting just a tiny bit longer each day so we get to see the sun a couple minutes longer, at least on the days we can see the sun.  Tomorrow that darned groundhog will probably predict six more weeks of winter. Hate that little varmint! Actually, those of you who don't live near Punxsutawney PA might not know about Punxsutawney Phil and his annual prediction. If not, watch the movie Groundhog Day sometime for a pretty good laugh. Just the right entertainment if you are stuck inside with cabin fever!